Single Felica, 52

Single Antonetta, 35

You already own a gun and are getting the of Naughty older ladies want orgasm russian lady it. You're not an anti-gun activist or anything. A Christmas bonus isn't in the financial plan, it is extra. Yes maybe it could have been used for something more useful; but it doesn't affect your normal finances. He didn't tell, possibly, you because he thought you would be afraid of it simply because it is unfamiliar and you don't have confidence in yourself to handle it. Possibly he thought only that and did not think you would have any fundamental objection. These all seem minor to me. If your reaction against it is deeper than just being afraid no knowing how to use it, then that is the essential point to discuss with him. If he sees your objection is fundamental and not simply resistance to something unfamiliar, he *should* offer to give it up, return it, not have it in the house. But you haven't had that discussion yet, so you don't know if he is trying to railroad you or nudge you. Another view of this, btw, people believe the scarcity drive the price of these guns up. Making it a kind of financial investment. Does he it that way? I'd say calm down and marshal your reasons for not wanting it, sit down and discuss. Tell him how it makes you feel. Listen to his feelings if this was an emotional purchase for him. Some guys dream for decades of certain guns, cars, motorcycles. You shouldn't have to feel uneasy in your own home, and that trumps him wanting a toy. But hear his view before deciding. Another discussion to have, though maybe not the same day, is how both of you feel about unexpected money. Is it for discretionary spending? Half for splurging? Joint splurge or shared? Should it be put in savings? Come to a middle road on this if you have very different viewpoints. My puzzled reaction, after reading all the outraged responses here. Divorced Pamula, 32

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Single Toccara, 25