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Time to put on the big girl panties and make this a clean break once and for all for your own self-respect, and in a sense, doing for him what he can't do for himself: let him go free. Let him "be himself" with some other woman who is desperate enough to put up with his bullshit. The only thing that his indecisiveness says about you is that, for some reason, you don't think you deserve better. But I think you're starting to realize that this isn't the kind of relationship that you can build a future on, and that means you're a lot further down the road of maturity than this is. Get this through your head: YOUR SELF-ESTEEM DOES NOT DEPEND ON THIS. It's "SELF" esteem, not "HIS" esteem. His problems with the relationship are HIS problems. You think this kind of wishy-washiness is NORMAL? It's not. It's HIS problem, NOT yours. You can't fix him. You can only fix your response to his behaviors. Unfriend him on, block his number, cry a little bit with your therapist, watch some chick flicks, get a new haircut and MOVE ON. It's not your job to help him figure out "what went wrong." Again he's lazy. He can't even figure out what's wrong on his own? Let HIM go to therapy and figure it out. You aren't his therapist. In fact, the best response to that question is "Look in the damn mirror THAT'S what went wrong. Now go away." Question? Another great view point, still not sure of the answer, EXCEPT, that here is NO ANSWER, only more Questions1 The one I guess I will have to take away is, "Why DO FOOLS FALL IN LOVE?"...LOL It seems there is more than 1 question. 1. "Why does it always seem, one partner needs more contact more than the other one?" Everyone is different. 2. "How can a fairly good looking woman, intelligent, and a great sense (maybe twisted) of humor, always end up with a guy who does not seem to like kissing her, cuddling her, or even giving her the sexual pleasure she has to beg for, and still get nothing?" You need to look at what your priorities are and then make your choices based on them. From the of what you are saying, you do not really know what you want or how to get it. Sometime professionals can help and sometime alone time can help. Thank you for your insight on my (guess it was more than one) question. I do realize everyone is different, and has different needs. I also have spent many years pondering this question, and most of it alone. There is more than one way of being alone, then just being the only person in the room (or the house). I have talked to professionals, in many different areas of human behavior,and so ed experts, and seem to always get the same answer,"you have to ask for what you want" . And am then told, and understand if you are still not getting it, you have the choice to either , do without it, or leave and try again with someone else. And there being, the "someone else" starts off being great at giving you the thing that was missing before, so you take the next step, after step, until you have both made lasting commitments once again, and slowly (or sometimes quickly), you find yourself once again having to ask, and plead, and beg for contact or touch, or time or whatever it was that you were searching for in the first place. So , let me ask you this, is that really my only choices? Leave (everything else I love about my life) in order to find the one thing I need the most, or just learn to do without the closeness, the contact, the passion, the romance, the affection, that I have craved for so very long? Please, be in your answer , as I am really in a fragile state these days. thank you for you honesty, 'm a man and have often wondered a bit about what you're asking myself. To begin with, this hasn't been something that I've done. I was married and loved the lady. Loved to kiss, hug, talk, have sex with, date, etc. Now I'm in another relationship and love to do the same with my fianc. But I do know that my fianc's ex was more of the sort you describe. And of course I've known of many couples with this problem. I do also hear men of the same sort of thing with their ladies, but not as often. It stems from a few roots, with different ones operating in different people. -Many men (and women for that matter) never had any affection modeled for them in the relationships they saw as they grew up. These would include their parents, other relatives, friends of the family, parents of their own friends, and so on. My fianc's ex is a classic case of this. If you don't see how something is supposed to be done, it's hard to figure out how later. -Similarly many men and women did not have much affection shown to them growing up. Again my fianc's ex is a good example. It's hard to ever pay out affection if it wasn't paid in. -Men in particular often have a "hunter's mentality" about certain things in life. Once you've accomplished a certain thing, then you can scratch it off your list and not worry about it too much anymore. So you bagged an 8-point buck and a mountain lion; good; no need to hunt so much now. So you got the big promotion; good; no need work so hard now. So you married a good wife; good; no need to charm so much now. So you made a kid or two; good; no need to screw so much now. It's definitely a take-it-for-granted or been-there-done-that mentality, and it's too common. Women don't seem to display this tendency as much as men but they do have it to some degree at times too. -The greater need for contact or sexual intimacy can be due to actual brain wiring. You're surely aware that some people have ludicrously high sex drives while others have hot woman want fucking dating discreet normal ones and others have low drives. Sex or intimacy drives, as well as personal space, and amount of verbalization, are all a product of both upbringing and biology (i.e., brain wiring). They also change at times in life with hormonal changes, stress, and so on. So a mismatch in desire for intimacy between two people can be based in their biology as well as their social background. There are surely other elements that factor in (stress is a biggie) but those are the major ones that come to my mind right now. Of course once you've outlined all that, and maybe more, you come to the next question which is: What to do about it? Do you talk to the man? Get counseling? Talk with friends/family? Do a trial separation? Have an affair? Throw a fit? Have a breakdown? Wish there were easy, just-add-water-and-stir answers, but there aren't. Oh, and to answer some others, no his is ok, (takes shots) and just had a , no he is not gay, and he is a great guy in many other ways.

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